Category: Presence

I Died Well Because I Lived Well 💭✨

We all know that death is inevitable, yet few of us truly live with that awareness. A death doula once shared the reflections of those nearing the end of their lives—their regrets 😞, joys 😊, and moments of peace 🕊️. Their words stayed with me, reminding me that when the time comes, 💰 money won’t […]

🌟 The Beauty of the Unplanned Plan 🌟

You know the saying, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” 📅 It’s a phrase drilled into us from an early age, urging us to map out our futures, set goals, and stay on course. And then there’s the other one—the one that always makes me chuckle—”When we make plans, God laughs.” 😂 […]

🌟 The Illusion of Being Watched: A Life Lesson on Anxiety 🌟

Anxiety 😰 is a word we hear everywhere these days. I see influencers talking about it, young people sharing their struggles, and even my own child has spoken about it. That’s a far cry from when I was growing up in the ’70s and ’80s, when “anxiety” was something you might hear on a soap […]

Comparison is Not Compassion: How Well-Meaning Conversations Can Go Awry

Two women sit at an outdoor café, one appearing frustrated while the other is animatedly talking. The frustrated woman has a thought bubble that reads, "Here we go again, she's going to make it about her," representing the theme of comparison vs. compassion. The scene captures the feeling of being overshadowed in a conversation, with elements of self-care, emotional wellness, and the struggle for balance in relationships. The setting reflects modern urban life, with coffee cups on the table and a city skyline in the background, highlighting the importance of boundaries and mutual support in friendships.

Have you ever been in a situation where you’re opening up about something personal, only to have the conversation suddenly shift? 🤔 Perhaps someone jumps in with a story of their own, a similar experience they’ve been through. While they likely mean well, trying to show that they understand what you’re going through, it can […]

🌟 The Two Robertas: A Tale of Influence and Reflection 🌟

A split image titled The Two Robertas: A Tale of Influence and Reflection, showcasing two sides of the same woman, each representing different personas. On the left, labeled "Roberta Hippie," she wears colorful sunglasses, a headband, and a smile while holding a book titled "Rebobe One." The background includes peace symbols, a graduation cap, and hints of nature. On the right side, labeled "Complex Influence," her persona shifts to a more mysterious and introspective look, holding a peace sign with her fingers amid swirling smoke and marijuana leaves. Keywords: duality, hippie culture, influence, peace symbol, reflection, spirituality, complexity, self-expression, psychedelic art, personal growth.

📝 Introduction Life often introduces us to individuals who leave lasting impacts, shaping us in ways we may not fully appreciate until much later. During my senior year of high school, two such individuals entered my life—both named Roberta. Each played a unique role during a tumultuous period marked by rebellion and personal challenges. This […]

“Slaying Trends, Confidence as Accessory! 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️💁🏿‍♀️👠 #FashionistaFabulous”

A vibrant cartoon-style illustration of a fashionable young woman standing confidently inside a wooden booth labeled 'Fashionista.' She is wearing stylish striped pants, a white crop top, black lace-up boots, and accessorized with gold bracelets, earrings, and a belt. Behind her is a display of clothing on a rack and a chic handbag, with a cozy seating area and framed art creating a trendy boutique vibe." Fashionista Style Fashion boutique Trendy outfit Cartoon character Fashion illustration Stylish woman Clothing rack Accessories Fashion booth Confidence Boutique setting

Being a fashionista is more than just following trends; it’s about embracing self-expression, creativity, and confidence through personal style. Stella is both environmentally conscious and fashion-forward. She’s always stylishly dressed in sustainable materials. Fashionistas have a keen eye for aesthetics and an innate sense of flair that allows them to curate unique and stylish looks […]