We’re All Just Well on Different Days

How Shared Wisdom and Honest Support Keep Us Going There’s a saying I hold close: “We’re all sick, just on different days.” 🤝It’s a simple truth with a big message—we’re all in this thing together. Today, you might have it all together 💪🏾. Tomorrow, you might be the one reaching out for help 🤲🏾. And […]

Hot Topics and Hot Temps: Let the Girls Breathe ☀️👙

Summer’s creeping up again, and you know what that means—it’s time for the yearly debate on how women should dress. Yep, the heat’s rising, and so is the commentary. Yes, pun fully intended. 🔥 Now, if you’ve read my blogs before, you know I’m big on letting people be who they are—as long as it’s […]

🎭 The Myth of Perfection: When Talent Becomes a Trap 💫

We all know a celebrity known for working super hard 💪🏾. They built a career by learning, growing, and working. Over time, their name became a symbol of excellence. 👏🏾 But somewhere along the way, something changed… 💡 Society didn’t just admire their talent—they elevated them. Slowly, the world stopped seeing the human behind the […]

🔄🤔 Why Do Outdated Constructs Hold On?

Society runs on constructs—frameworks we’ve collectively agreed upon to organize life. Some are necessary, like ⏰ time, 💵 money, and 🌍 space—without them, the world as we know it would descend into chaos. But then, there are the ones that serve no real purpose—yet they persist long past their expiration date. 📛 Titles in the […]

Why Empowerment Blogs Don’t Have the Same Pull as Tea & Gossip ☕👀

Let’s be real—most people would rather sip tea than gulp down a dose of self-improvement. 🫖😆 Gossip is effortless, drama is entertaining, and watching someone else’s mistakes unfold is way easier than looking in the mirror and facing our own. And empowerment? Well… empowerment means taking responsibility. And let’s be honest—that doesn’t always feel good […]

I Died Well Because I Lived Well 💭✨

We all know that death is inevitable, yet few of us truly live with that awareness. A death doula once shared the reflections of those nearing the end of their lives—their regrets 😞, joys 😊, and moments of peace 🕊️. Their words stayed with me, reminding me that when the time comes, 💰 money won’t […]

The Digital Avon Lady: A New Hustle or Just the Same Old Scheme? 💻💰

There was a time when the Avon Lady 💄 or the Tupperware salesperson 🍱 was a fixture in communities across the country. These were enterprising individuals—often women—who built a small business by selling products through direct marketing. The appeal was simple: work on your own time ⏳, be your own boss 👩🏽‍💼, and make money […]

Your Story Matters: Share, Inspire & Be Heard on Living An Animated Life! ✍🏾✨

Everyone has a story. Whether it’s a personal journey of growth, an unexpected life lesson, or a moment of transformation, your experiences have the power to inspire, uplift, and connect with others. That’s exactly what Living An Animated Life is all about—creating a space where real people share real stories that make a difference. 🌍💡 […]

The Double-Edged Sword of Having No Expectations ⚔️

After experiencing multiple disappointments throughout life, whether it was family-oriented—thinking that since blood is thicker than water, these folks are supposed to be a certain way—and finding out firsthand from a very early age that wasn’t true, I started seeing a pattern. I went on to acquire friendships and realized the same thing. And let’s […]

When You Know, You Know: Finding the No-Competition Friend 🤔💡

Maybe Mary, Joy, Ralph, and Mike just don’t know. Maybe they don’t realize what it means to have real friendships—the kind where nobody is in competition, and everyone is leveling up together. Let’s break it down. Is Mary Really Joy’s Friend? 🤨💰 Picture this: Mary’s got a six-figure job, living the luxury life, while Joy […]

🌟 The Illusion of Being Watched: A Life Lesson on Anxiety 🌟

Anxiety 😰 is a word we hear everywhere these days. I see influencers talking about it, young people sharing their struggles, and even my own child has spoken about it. That’s a far cry from when I was growing up in the ’70s and ’80s, when “anxiety” was something you might hear on a soap […]

Embracing Freedom and Authenticity: A Conversation on Black Women’s Choices

🌟 Introduction: Welcome, everyone! Let’s dive into a topic that’s been making waves lately: the idea that Black women might be holding each other down. But before we go there, let’s acknowledge a powerful moment of unity: when Kamala Harris ran for president in 2024, Black women showed up and showed out — her largest […]

The Intersection of God ✨, Therapy 🧠, and AI 🤖: Exploring Wisdom in a Digital Age

In a world filled with challenges, many seek guidance in different ways—some turn to faith 🙏, others to therapy 🛋️, and now, increasingly, people are turning to AI-powered tools like ChatGPT 🤖. While these sources of wisdom may seem distinct, they share a common goal: helping people navigate life’s complexities. But how do they compare? […]

🌟 You Can Be Unapologetic by Knowing There’s a Sweet Spot 🌟

In a world that often nudges us to fit in, being unapologetically yourself 🌈 can feel like a bold act of self-love. But here’s the key: you can be unapologetic by knowing there is a sweet spot 🍯—a balance between staying true to yourself and showing empathy 🫂. Embracing who you are without apology is […]

How to Get People to Say “Yes” Every Time (Without Lifting a Finger) 💡

We all know someone who can effortlessly get what they want, right? 😏 They seem to have a magic formula that makes others go out of their way for them. So, what’s their secret? In reality, getting what you need and keeping genuine connections comes down to some unexpected twists. Ready to find out what […]

“The Internet is Broken (Or Is It?) 🧐: What Should We Do About It?”

What’s the Real Question? Ever wonder what the internet will look like if we don’t figure out how to control it? We don’t have to wonder—because we’re already there. Think of it like this: 🚦 Imagine if there were no stoplights on the streets. 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏽‍♂️ No crosswalks. Any kind of store 🏪 could open up […]

Why I Couldn’t Back Out 🚪🤔

Doing What I Say I Will Do: A Lesson in Commitment 🤝✨Have you ever been caught between the pull of your obligations and the comfort of staying put? Recently, I found myself in just that predicament when someone asked me to provide my services at an engagement. The catch? It required waking up early on […]