🌻 Share Your Story: A Moment in the Sunflower Field 🌻
There’s something powerful about pausing to reflect. 🧘🏾♀️✨ In this special video, we returned to a few of our most impactful blog conversations—from The Myth of Perfection 💭 to Why Empowerment Blogs Don’t Have the Same Pull as Tea & Gossip ☕️. Each one came from a real place. Each one sparked something in us. […]
Hot Topics and Hot Temps: Let the Girls Breathe ☀️👙
Summer’s creeping up again, and you know what that means—it’s time for the yearly debate on how women should dress. Yep, the heat’s rising, and so is the commentary. Yes, pun fully intended. 🔥 Now, if you’ve read my blogs before, you know I’m big on letting people be who they are—as long as it’s […]
🎭 The Myth of Perfection: When Talent Becomes a Trap 💫
We all know a celebrity known for working super hard 💪🏾. They built a career by learning, growing, and working. Over time, their name became a symbol of excellence. 👏🏾 But somewhere along the way, something changed… 💡 Society didn’t just admire their talent—they elevated them. Slowly, the world stopped seeing the human behind the […]
🔄🤔 Why Do Outdated Constructs Hold On?
Society runs on constructs—frameworks we’ve collectively agreed upon to organize life. Some are necessary, like ⏰ time, 💵 money, and 🌍 space—without them, the world as we know it would descend into chaos. But then, there are the ones that serve no real purpose—yet they persist long past their expiration date. 📛 Titles in the […]
Why Empowerment Blogs Don’t Have the Same Pull as Tea & Gossip ☕👀
Let’s be real—most people would rather sip tea than gulp down a dose of self-improvement. 🫖😆 Gossip is effortless, drama is entertaining, and watching someone else’s mistakes unfold is way easier than looking in the mirror and facing our own. And empowerment? Well… empowerment means taking responsibility. And let’s be honest—that doesn’t always feel good […]
Men Do Have Babies: Challenging Outdated Gender Roles 💡👶🏾
What defines masculinity and femininity? What makes someone a man or a woman beyond the biological markers that doctors and scientists use for medical care and research? 🏥⚕️ For as long as civilization has existed, there have been individuals who blur the lines between these constructed definitions—men who display highly feminine traits and women who […]
Murphy’s Law and the Paper Towel Paradox: A Lesson in Playing the Whole Tape
The day before yesterday, I had one of those oh-no moments. 😳 I was in a public restroom, finished handling my business, and only then did I realize—no toilet paper. 🚽🚫 Not a single square. No extra roll in sight. Now, if you’ve ever been in this situation, you know the sinking feeling that follows. […]
I Died Well Because I Lived Well 💭✨
We all know that death is inevitable, yet few of us truly live with that awareness. A death doula once shared the reflections of those nearing the end of their lives—their regrets 😞, joys 😊, and moments of peace 🕊️. Their words stayed with me, reminding me that when the time comes, 💰 money won’t […]
The Digital Avon Lady: A New Hustle or Just the Same Old Scheme? 💻💰
There was a time when the Avon Lady 💄 or the Tupperware salesperson 🍱 was a fixture in communities across the country. These were enterprising individuals—often women—who built a small business by selling products through direct marketing. The appeal was simple: work on your own time ⏳, be your own boss 👩🏽💼, and make money […]
💰 Does It Really Take Money to Make Money?
We’ve all heard the saying “You have to spend money to make money.” 💵 It’s a mantra often thrown around in business, side hustles, and even personal growth. But is it really true? I don’t believe it is. While some expenses—like gas for travel ⛽ or an occasional access fee 🎟️—might be necessary, the idea […]
Your Story Matters: Share, Inspire & Be Heard on Living An Animated Life! ✍🏾✨
Everyone has a story. Whether it’s a personal journey of growth, an unexpected life lesson, or a moment of transformation, your experiences have the power to inspire, uplift, and connect with others. That’s exactly what Living An Animated Life is all about—creating a space where real people share real stories that make a difference. 🌍💡 […]
Your Worst Day Could Be Someone’s Best: A Different Way to See Struggles ✨
Some days, everything feels heavy. The weight of responsibilities, the monotony of routine, the endless loop of things that need to get done—it can all feel like too much. And in those moments, it’s easy to think, I can’t do this today. But what if, just for a moment, we shifted the lens? Not in […]
🌟 The Beauty of the Unplanned Plan 🌟
You know the saying, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” 📅 It’s a phrase drilled into us from an early age, urging us to map out our futures, set goals, and stay on course. And then there’s the other one—the one that always makes me chuckle—”When we make plans, God laughs.” 😂 […]
The Double-Edged Sword of Having No Expectations ⚔️
After experiencing multiple disappointments throughout life, whether it was family-oriented—thinking that since blood is thicker than water, these folks are supposed to be a certain way—and finding out firsthand from a very early age that wasn’t true, I started seeing a pattern. I went on to acquire friendships and realized the same thing. And let’s […]
“🧠🤝 Why Common Sense Isn’t as Common as We Think?”
🤔 You’ve probably heard it before—”Common sense isn’t so common anymore!” It’s a phrase people throw around when they see something that seems obvious yet is ignored. But what if the issue isn’t really about common sense at all? What if what we’re really talking about is common courtesy? In reality, common sense and common […]
“From the Hooter to the Tooter: Don’t Blow It!” 🎺💨
Introduction: What is Inflammation? Imagine your body is a city, and you’ve got firefighters, cops, and cleanup crews working 24/7 to keep things running smooth. But what happens if the fire alarm never turns off? 🚨 What if the firefighters never go home, and instead of putting out fires, they just keep hosing down everything, […]
🌟 The Illusion of Being Watched: A Life Lesson on Anxiety 🌟
Anxiety 😰 is a word we hear everywhere these days. I see influencers talking about it, young people sharing their struggles, and even my own child has spoken about it. That’s a far cry from when I was growing up in the ’70s and ’80s, when “anxiety” was something you might hear on a soap […]
Embracing Freedom and Authenticity: A Conversation on Black Women’s Choices
🌟 Introduction: Welcome, everyone! Let’s dive into a topic that’s been making waves lately: the idea that Black women might be holding each other down. But before we go there, let’s acknowledge a powerful moment of unity: when Kamala Harris ran for president in 2024, Black women showed up and showed out — her largest […]
The Truth About Money and Happiness: A Balanced Checklist 💰😊
Money and happiness—two of the most talked-about subjects in the world. We often hear rich people say, “Money doesn’t buy happiness,” yet many struggling financially believe that if they just had enough, life would be easier and more fulfilling. So, where does the truth lie? Does wealth truly bring happiness, or does it distract from […]
The Intersection of God ✨, Therapy 🧠, and AI 🤖: Exploring Wisdom in a Digital Age
In a world filled with challenges, many seek guidance in different ways—some turn to faith 🙏, others to therapy 🛋️, and now, increasingly, people are turning to AI-powered tools like ChatGPT 🤖. While these sources of wisdom may seem distinct, they share a common goal: helping people navigate life’s complexities. But how do they compare? […]
The Exhausting Process of Elimination: When Fixing the Problem Feels Like the Problem 😩🔄
Sometimes, the only way to figure out what’s not working is to start removing things, one by one. 🧩 It sounds simple—just try different things until you find the problem, right? But in reality, the process of elimination can be mentally draining. 😵💫 Why? Because it requires a level of hyper-awareness that isn’t always natural. […]
🍁 How to Be Traditional Without Traditions: Practicing Self-Care This Thanksgiving 🦃
Thanksgiving often comes with a set of expectations: big meals 🍽️, elaborate gatherings 🥂, and picture-perfect moments 🎥. But let’s be real—not everyone finds joy in those traditions, and that’s perfectly okay. The key is staying true to yourself—to thy own self be true—and creating a holiday that works for you. 🧡 This blog explores […]
🌟 You Can Be Unapologetic by Knowing There’s a Sweet Spot 🌟
In a world that often nudges us to fit in, being unapologetically yourself 🌈 can feel like a bold act of self-love. But here’s the key: you can be unapologetic by knowing there is a sweet spot 🍯—a balance between staying true to yourself and showing empathy 🫂. Embracing who you are without apology is […]
Everything is a Business: Finding Balance Between Care and Cost 💼💡
“Standing at the kitchen sink, hands submerged in warm, soapy water, a thought struck me: Why do I feel a knot of dread at the idea of seeking medical help? The fear of an astronomical bill overshadowing my concern for my own well-being. This moment of frustration sparked a deeper reflection on the business of […]
Embracing Creativity and Empowerment: A Conversation with Kyesha Johnson of Pretty Prompts AI ✨🎨
I first met Kyesha when I joined her Facebook group, Pretty Prompts AI. I was immediately struck by the awesome AI-generated graphics she posted, and what impressed me even more was how generously she shared the prompts she used to create them. She gave me a window into learning how to do prompts for amazing-looking […]
❤️💥 Breaking the Manosphere Myth 💥
If we go back to earlier times ⏳, long before laws were formed 📝, men controlled not just relationships but sex as well. Men could not be charged with taking sex from a wife because it was considered their right. Marriage, in many ways, wasn’t about love or partnership but about ownership 🏠. A husband […]
Why I Couldn’t Back Out 🚪🤔
Doing What I Say I Will Do: A Lesson in Commitment 🤝✨Have you ever been caught between the pull of your obligations and the comfort of staying put? Recently, I found myself in just that predicament when someone asked me to provide my services at an engagement. The catch? It required waking up early on […]
Karma & Grace: How Your Actions Shape Your Future 🌟
Hey there! 👋 Are you curious about how your actions affect your future? Or maybe you’ve heard the word “karma” and are wondering what it really means? Well, you’re in the right place! In this post, we’re going to talk about karma—what it is, how it works, and how you can make sure it works […]
It’s Virgo Season: A Shout Out to All My Virgos! ♍️✨
Hey there, beautiful souls! 🌟 It’s officially Virgo season, and I want to take a moment to celebrate all of my fellow Virgos out there! Whether you’re a proud Virgo sun, moon, or rising, this post is dedicated to you. 🌸 Let’s dive into what makes Virgo women so special—your strengths, your quirks, and what […]
From Lovers to Friends: Is It Possible? 💖➡️👫
Life often brings people into our paths who leave a lasting mark, even when we’re not at our best. 💫 I had a long-term friend who was once my romantic partner 💑, but back then, I wasn’t capable of being the partner they deserved because I didn’t like who I was. 😔 After embarking on […]
Comparison is Not Compassion: How Well-Meaning Conversations Can Go Awry
Have you ever been in a situation where you’re opening up about something personal, only to have the conversation suddenly shift? 🤔 Perhaps someone jumps in with a story of their own, a similar experience they’ve been through. While they likely mean well, trying to show that they understand what you’re going through, it can […]
🎧 Podcast Lovers, Unite: Who’s Your Go-To Podcaster? 🎧
🎧 Podcast Obsession: What’s Your Audio Addiction? 🎙️ Hey there, audio enthusiasts! 👋 Let’s talk about the digital drug that’s got us all hooked – podcasts! 🎶 From edge-of-your-seat true crime 🕵️♀️ to laugh-out-loud comedy 😂, mind-blowing interviews 🤯, and life-changing self-help gems 💎, there’s a podcast for every mood and moment. 🔥 Hot Take […]